The days when weddings were merely about stammering vows at the altar and quickly scarfing down a plate of chicken afterward are well and truly over. Modern weddings are the absolute highlight on Instagram, and to be honest, we can’t imagine experiencing one without a Hochzeitsmoderator. Because, let’s be real, who wants a wedding without the spice of a wedding moderator?

So, what exactly does a wedding moderator do? Oh, sweetheart, buckle up. Imagine having a best friend who isn’t just a superb party planner but a brilliant entertainer. A friend who takes care of the details so you can savor your day to the fullest. And no, we’re not talking about bridesmaids. This is where the magical presence of a wedding moderator comes in.

A wedding moderator, or as it’s affectionately called in Europe, a Tamada, is the charming, bubbly, omnipresent soul of the party. They guide you through the day, from the romantic exchange of vows to the wild evening party.

Now you might be thinking you don’t need a moderator. “I already have a wedding planner,” I hear you say. But honey, a wedding moderator is so much more than that. They’re the captain steering the wedding ship safely through the stormy sea of the day.

A wedding moderator will make your guests laugh, make them cry (out of joy, of course!), and have them talking for hours about the best wedding they’ve ever attended. They bring that certain extra that takes your wedding from “nice” to “absolutely unforgettable.”

Alright, maybe you’re thinking you and your future spouse could handle that yourself. But who wants to be responsible for keeping the party going on their own wedding day? Besides, who would catch the bridal bouquet then? Sure, you could ask your crazy aunt to take over. But unless she’s a natural at entertainment, things could quickly get out of hand. And trust us, nobody wants a repeat of Aunt Gertrud’s karaoke number at your 21st birthday party.

So whether you’re planning a small, intimate gathering or the wedding party of the century, remember this: A wedding moderator can add that certain something that makes your day unforgettable.

And to all the soon-to-be brides out there who haven’t discovered this jewel of wedding planning yet, remember: Your wedding day should be the happiest day of your life. So why not hire someone to make sure it’s also the most entertaining one?